spladle2submission's blog
Please just be REAL
Guys, I only ask if you ask me to wrestle; you ACTUALLY want to wrestle, are a wrestler, and do not mind wrestling for REAL. If all you want is to be fucked, say so, and do not leave any questions about what you want; just say, "come fuck my ass." But arranging a meeting to wrestle, and then when we start to wrestle, you panic at the first hint of a REAL wrestling hold is such a turn-off and a dick shrinker. Today I began to use a kimura arm lock on a guy; I did not even have it on, much less apply any pressure. The guy panicked, tapped like his arm was being broken, and screamed as if it had already been broken. I released it IMMEDIATELY, of course, and he said it was "starting" to hurt. Then I pinned him down and started to tap his balls lightly to display some dominance, and he said, "no, no, no, I hate that." Then I grabbed him and started to get my arm under his chin as if I was going to apply a rear naked choke, and once again screens out in a panic. I did not lock the rear naked on, and NO pressure was applied. I IMMEDIATELY let it go, pushed him off of me, and got up and left. At no point did I ever do anything to hurt him, choke him out, or in any way injure him. I am a well-trained medical professional and would rather get hurt myself than injure another guy wrestling. I have never harmed anyone I have wrestled and always try very, very hard to maintain every modicum of safety, but to have a guy squeal like a girl every time a real legit amateur or submission hold is applied is a total turn-off. All he wanted was to be fucked and bred on a wrestling mat because being in wrestling gear while being fucked was a turn-on for him.
I refuse to name names on here; it is not right to embarrass someone or talk bad about anyone, and I know we all have different ideas of what wrestling is, but please, if all you want is to be fucked in wrestling gear, you can find that on Grindr or Scruff, you do not need to come on here and act as if you wrestle but cry like a girl when you actually are expected to wrestle. And owning wrestling mats in your home does not make you a wrestler; it makes you a gear whore who wants to think they are wrestling but, in reality, is just getting fucked raw on wrestling mats.
HuskywrestlerLA (8)
06/11/2022 23:04Well said!
The Professor (67 )
07/11/2022 04:51Yep, I agree that is pretty messed up. You handled it well.
BearTamer (31 )
07/11/2022 05:23Yikes. Not respecting the tap? Even judging them for doing so? That’s a terrible experience for somebody new to submission wrestling... I hope they have better experiences in the future.
spladle2submission (23 )
07/11/2022 05:28(em resposta à...)
I immediately released everything when he screamed and tapped. I never applied any pressure on any hold, even ones used in high school wrestling. And I never even came close to causing pain; he just wanted to be fucked raw on the wrestling mat; he did not actually want to wrestle. And he is not new to wrestling; he had matches on this site and recommendations from guys on meet fighters. That's what's so frustrating other people recommended it; I guess they liked his tight ass when they bred him.
rasslin bodybuilder (207 )
07/11/2022 19:57(em resposta à...)
i would take you on anytime. i have met new guys who have never wrestled before fight harder for dominance than I am. i def do not get turned on if no pressure/strength was put into the hold, in fact im so stubborn to want to persist in the hold until i get accidentally injured myself. and for guys who want to see me job, i cant job if the holds are not put on real with some power, i cant act pain if there is no pain involved.
JasonAnders (181)
06/1/2023 18:17(em resposta à...)
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Shoot (15 )
08/11/2022 03:53Happens to the best of us. Best thing u did was get up and leave.
olderdesire (14)
08/11/2022 18:44I’m old. I can’t scrap like I used to. I’ve never been trained. However, I’ve wrestled a couple of guys on here who were expert submission wrestlers. They dominated me and put on pressure that made me tap. Did I whine? No. Did I stop? No. I did Mt best to learn. I joined this site to find guys who actually wrestle. I want a man to man test. I once drove two hours and met a guy who claimed he loved to play rough. Instead, he wanted to watch wrestling vids and when we finally began to wrestle, he was like a dead fish. I left disappointed. I don’t want fucked. I don’t need anything more than a good scrap. Once in a while the chemistry clicks and we get erotic. But, that is after a good scrap. I understand Spladle. You’re my kind of man
Sibeasterus (10)
08/11/2022 22:51Bravo! I really don't understand what these pseudo-wrestlers try to find on wrestlers' forum
JasonAnders (181)
08/11/2022 23:29Just had this happen yesterday myself!!!!!!!! I just started a Nelson and he started moaning about a pinched nerve. Then he couldn't take light ball taps either. I was like "bye"
spladle2submission (23 )
08/11/2022 23:57(em resposta à...)
I know, it’s annoying. Either u wrestle and agree to the rules of wrestling or you are a fake. It’s simple
TakeThePunchesAI (13)
09/11/2022 00:36😂😂😂 I love how blunt this is. But it’s a much needed point man. The other problem is people try to force their interest on other people rather than taking the time they don’t want to take to meet the person of their interest. And some just want to live out the fantasy of what they might watch and not want to experience in the reality of it all.
It’s sad but glad you brought it out.
the123champ (24)
09/11/2022 15:23Agree! I'm wrestling only and my profile CLEARLY states that. My preferred style is folkstyle wrestling. I always discuss rules AND expectations. Still, I've had a COUPLE of occasions where all someone wanted me to do was lay on them. Like you, I just got up and left.
SpladlePin (32 )
10/11/2022 14:32I agree!
I’m on here to wrestle and make friends, if sex is all I wanted I’d be embarrassed to be on this site!
TakeThePunchesAI (13)
10/11/2022 14:52(em resposta à...)
Lol. That said, I've only been on year two years so far. Assuming you've been here longer, has it always been that way though? Others can answer too, I just thought I'd ask.
Armbar (2)
11/11/2022 13:28I’d take whatever you threw at me fella 😜
hellman34 (13)
16/11/2022 02:34Something similar happened to me way back in 2003. Had to drive all the way to Dallas which took over thirty minutes. The guy wanted to be put in holds so it wasn’t much of a match. I left after five minutes because he kept screaming every time I touched him. He even called me a sadist! He kept screaming in pain before I even put him in any holds! He didn’t want to be fucked, though. I don’t think he even knew what he wanted.
yonkerswrangler (197)
06/1/2023 17:50very off putting when a guy wants to wrestle for stakes and loses on purpose prefer the stake wrestler has his way with loser which could mean anything