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Earlier in the chat, I saw someone state that they prefer younger men. Then I saw a few people reply with stuff like, "older men know more!" Or, "ageist!" Stop trying to change someone's preferences because you don't fit in with their fantasy.

I personally prefer men older than me, but I cannot tell you how many times I've been told by older men that they don't like younger men. Or I see on their profiles stating, "guys 45 and over only." Those same guys calling out the guy who prefers younger men won't say anything about that though. The profiles I see saying that, I'm not going to message them saying, "You're an ageist!" or "Younger guys are better!" Because why?

Everyone has preferences! Again, stop trying to change someone's preferences just because you don't fit within their fantasy. Trying to do so not only makes you look bitter, but it also makes you look like a bully.

Thank you.
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So as someone who has been a frequent visitor to the Meetfighters chat room, I have made quite the observation. Perhaps it's an obvious one, but I want to vocalize it to see if people have also noticed.

The Meetfighters chat room is either a hit or a miss when it comes to meeting new people. You can enter the chat room and say, "Hello everyone. How's everyone doing today?" And only one or two people are willing to answer. And the reason for that seems to be, only people who find you attractive are willing to answer your greeting. The chat room itself is quite clique-y and for that reason, it's a hit or a miss when it comes to meeting or talking to others. I mean correct me if I'm wrong.

With that being said, if you ever see me in the chat room and need/want someone to talk to, feel free to pm me. I don't care what you look like, I'd just really enjoy the company and the conversation. 😊 My status in the chat at the moment is, "Be kind to others. Always." And I always will be.

This is my first blog post, so bear with me.

So I know a lot of people get discouraged when another ignores their message or tells them that they are not interested in wrestling them. But honestly, you shouldn't. It hasn't happened to me recently, but I like to give others that I have seen who have been through that recently some words of encouragement.

As I have said, it hasn't happened to me recently. But it has happened to me quite a bit and trust me, I've heard it all.

•"You're too small for me."
•"You're too big for me."
•"You're too young for me "

Blah blah blah. Personal preferences, I get it. Just because you're not someone's cup of tea, doesn't mean you're worthless or beneath anybody.

And that's why you shouldn't let it get you down. You may not be that person's preference, but I know there's somebody on here that you're their preference and would love to hit the mats with you.

Keep your head up and keep wrestling!