Find most blokes interested these days are mostly in the mid 40s+ age range which I have no problem with. Getting older, been wrestling since I was in my mid 20s and have had a great time doing it! When I started back in the 90s early 00s, I was just so happy to realise somebody wanted a match and had the same combat want as I did. It was harder back in the day (in my experience in the UK) to meet anyone who wanted to wrestle ... you met in the UK via Iain Scott's mag, gaydar or recon and that was when the internet first really got up and running! The whole world and the internet has changed now and opened up the world of, what was underground, private wrestling to a whole new generation who never had to worry about being out or discussing their 'kinks'. Younger guys might not want to wrestle us older guys in their 50s and older but they do owe something to the opportunity they have to freely wrestle at all to our older 50s generation.
Since I'm late to the party, I took it as a given that my age would work against me so I promised myself two things: be willing to travel and network like crazy. I feel it's paid off for the most part. I kinda feel sorry for the younger twits who are missing the richness and wisdom of connecting with an older guy. Their loss!
Don't give up on younger guys....not all young guys are interested in older wrestlers/boxers, but there are those who are very interested. I"ve wrestled some great young men in their 20s, 30s, 40's, even early 50s....and I agree with you that age can be a detriment, and I was concerned on my last birthday that things would change for the worse. So far, so good. I have wrestled men ages 23-78, and prefer any age. Us "mature" (the new word for "older") men are not for everyone....but there are young studs out there who are looking to wrestle us.....again not all, but they are there. They will find you. (I have also experienced the disrespectful side from them on main chat....but a few bad messages will never outweigh the great matches I have had with younger men). There are outstanding, respectful young wrestlers/boxers out there.
I'm getting a decent amount maybe too many although not local. I just got back from St Louis and had 5 matches there. I am getting an average of 3-5 matches per month. I'm very accommodating and will travel for matches but I noticed a lot of the guys in chat especially talk a big game but really have 0 matches on there profile or vanish if you request a match. Also some guys on here are not easy to communicate with or don't respond back for weeks or longer which is why they don't get many matches
I roll my eyes when I see some young hottie write in their profile "no one over 50". When I was that age, I wrestled anyone and am so glad I did! I feel i get less matches these days, some of that's on me for not always being available, but I have learned to quickly move on if someone's not interested - no big deal. That's life. Feel lucky though to have experienced as many wrestling fantasies as I have over the years... always basing my matches on chemistry, not age or body type.
So true! I have some restrictions to but am locally available-but not to 22 yr olds that want to prove something! Older GWM ready DAYTIME/morning matches!
Honestly - probably just as many if not more. But you have to be more flexible about style/rules, i can't just go fullon competitive with everyone like i used to
Fewer. I think as we get older we have life issues, work, family etc that get in the way. Also today I think with social media more want to wrestle their mirror image and that cuts down on matches. Also if you’re not into the pro style or play submission that keeps the match count down.
I found it easier years ago.
I don't think it has changed. The last year low # of matches has been on me, not able/willing to meet for.. reasons.
Otherwise previous there's always the whose going to host/or go to a hotel thing.
A hotel is a hassle, had been a few where someone was traveling in and able to host in their hotel.
I'm sorta near LA, but not really and a really busy schedule makes it hard to drive, so I'll take ownership of a lot of it being me/my schedule.
But as with many have had a few flakes along the way.
So you blocked me, and so now you have to comment on my old posts. Lol. Why don't you try getting a match? Or have you given up since you are ruining what's left of your reputation, even if it is a bad one. Three red flags in your recs are impressive. I think that is the site record, congrats! Still not sure why you blocked me. Are you? The only thing I can think of is jealousy. Not wrestling you, so don't ask me to visit your mats again.
Skinscrapper (38)
24/1/2024 18:48Find most blokes interested these days are mostly in the mid 40s+ age range which I have no problem with. Getting older, been wrestling since I was in my mid 20s and have had a great time doing it! When I started back in the 90s early 00s, I was just so happy to realise somebody wanted a match and had the same combat want as I did. It was harder back in the day (in my experience in the UK) to meet anyone who wanted to wrestle ... you met in the UK via Iain Scott's mag, gaydar or recon and that was when the internet first really got up and running! The whole world and the internet has changed now and opened up the world of, what was underground, private wrestling to a whole new generation who never had to worry about being out or discussing their 'kinks'. Younger guys might not want to wrestle us older guys in their 50s and older but they do owe something to the opportunity they have to freely wrestle at all to our older 50s generation.
Remy88 (8)
24/1/2024 12:20Fewer... but always looking and always sane and safe.
poseidon (5)
24/1/2024 07:27As Redlandguy txt, I’m ready
redlandguy (200)
23/1/2024 08:08Definitely fewer.
But I’m ready when they are.
wrestlewriter (14)
23/1/2024 05:43Since I'm late to the party, I took it as a given that my age would work against me so I promised myself two things: be willing to travel and network like crazy. I feel it's paid off for the most part. I kinda feel sorry for the younger twits who are missing the richness and wisdom of connecting with an older guy. Their loss!
Pennsypinner (58)
24/1/2024 15:58(em resposta à...)
Don't give up on younger guys....not all young guys are interested in older wrestlers/boxers, but there are those who are very interested. I"ve wrestled some great young men in their 20s, 30s, 40's, even early 50s....and I agree with you that age can be a detriment, and I was concerned on my last birthday that things would change for the worse. So far, so good. I have wrestled men ages 23-78, and prefer any age. Us "mature" (the new word for "older") men are not for everyone....but there are young studs out there who are looking to wrestle us.....again not all, but they are there. They will find you. (I have also experienced the disrespectful side from them on main chat....but a few bad messages will never outweigh the great matches I have had with younger men). There are outstanding, respectful young wrestlers/boxers out there.
wrestlewriter (14)
24/1/2024 16:35(em resposta à...)
Encouraging words!
Pinmeifyoucan (31)
22/1/2024 05:55I'm getting a decent amount maybe too many although not local. I just got back from St Louis and had 5 matches there. I am getting an average of 3-5 matches per month. I'm very accommodating and will travel for matches but I noticed a lot of the guys in chat especially talk a big game but really have 0 matches on there profile or vanish if you request a match. Also some guys on here are not easy to communicate with or don't respond back for weeks or longer which is why they don't get many matches
BJJWrestlerLasVegas (12)
13/1/2024 10:09Within this site, fewer as ageism is extreme here, especially among visitors to, and locals in Las Vegas.
Navyguy (57)
13/1/2024 06:54A lot fewer. It’s always something.
Want to wrestle (11)
13/1/2024 00:59You’re on Pennsypinner!
Want to wrestle (11)
12/1/2024 20:41Could not agree more with ‘blond buds’ assessment. What is this, ‘Mean Girls 2’??
Enjoying the skin I’m in and open to just about any / all opportunities to get a sweaty workout in
Pennsypinner (58)
12/1/2024 22:34(em resposta à...)
Remember....next time you are back in PA.....
blondbud (43)
12/1/2024 12:43I roll my eyes when I see some young hottie write in their profile "no one over 50". When I was that age, I wrestled anyone and am so glad I did! I feel i get less matches these days, some of that's on me for not always being available, but I have learned to quickly move on if someone's not interested - no big deal. That's life. Feel lucky though to have experienced as many wrestling fantasies as I have over the years... always basing my matches on chemistry, not age or body type.
RED DADDY (4)
22/1/2024 05:41(em resposta à...)
So true! I have some restrictions to but am locally available-but not to 22 yr olds that want to prove something! Older GWM ready DAYTIME/morning matches!
herb (31)
14/1/2024 12:03(em resposta à...)
Gone response.
Pennsypinner (58)
12/1/2024 18:11(em resposta à...)
Waiting for you, Blondie.
mochablk (22)
12/1/2024 16:20(em resposta à...)
Well said!!! Well said!!!
Want to wrestle (11)
12/1/2024 04:59JiminQueens2, enjoyed wrestling you many years ago, let’s do it again!
mbowen67 (0)
29/12/2023 22:33I need help where I live in the
southeast Missouri area
luttefrance (36)
29/12/2023 17:50Honestly - probably just as many if not more. But you have to be more flexible about style/rules, i can't just go fullon competitive with everyone like i used to
herb (31)
28/12/2023 21:59Fewer. I think as we get older we have life issues, work, family etc that get in the way. Also today I think with social media more want to wrestle their mirror image and that cuts down on matches. Also if you’re not into the pro style or play submission that keeps the match count down.
I found it easier years ago.
john el (13)
28/12/2023 18:28I don't think it has changed. The last year low # of matches has been on me, not able/willing to meet for.. reasons.
Otherwise previous there's always the whose going to host/or go to a hotel thing.
A hotel is a hassle, had been a few where someone was traveling in and able to host in their hotel.
I'm sorta near LA, but not really and a really busy schedule makes it hard to drive, so I'll take ownership of a lot of it being me/my schedule.
But as with many have had a few flakes along the way.
Steve (3)
28/12/2023 12:28Fewer matches, posted match notices but no takers..
Remy88 (8)
28/12/2023 12:27Fight anyone.. any style ONCE rules agreed.
Looking for some serious new challenges for 2024 and some fun of course.
London Malaga
calwrestler (141)
27/12/2023 15:29My experience in re: Age ...is all over the place. Still getting requests so I am mostly satisfied!
ConshyMan (29)
12/1/2024 05:19(em resposta à...)
Your a formidable man ...you should get a ton
hvywght blk bxr (7)
26/12/2023 21:04Been getting fewer matches from here while my experience grows.
I do wish that past meets from a deleted user could still be counted. Just have a note saying user no longer listed or a member.
nu2rasln (43)
26/12/2023 06:42Still getting matches, most are returning wrestlers traveling thru Cincinnati.
Pennsypinner (58)
26/12/2023 05:27Been getting a steady flow of opponents. Been on here 2.5 years, 56 opponents, 110 matches with rematches. Just turned 70, but has not been negative factor yet Você precisa efetuar login com seu usuário e senha para visualizar a galeria de fotos.
Barefoot Grappler (10 )
22/1/2024 02:55(em resposta à...)
WHO GIVES A SHIT
Pennsypinner (58)
22/1/2024 14:08(em resposta à...)
So you blocked me, and so now you have to comment on my old posts. Lol. Why don't you try getting a match? Or have you given up since you are ruining what's left of your reputation, even if it is a bad one. Three red flags in your recs are impressive. I think that is the site record, congrats! Still not sure why you blocked me. Are you? The only thing I can think of is jealousy. Not wrestling you, so don't ask me to visit your mats again.
wrestlepa (38)
26/12/2023 15:36(em resposta à...)
I want to wrestle with you again
Pennsypinner (58)
28/12/2023 21:25(em resposta à...)
Nice.....in 2024.
wrestlepa (38)
26/12/2023 04:31Fewer matches
JiminQueens2 (39)
25/12/2023 20:07Damn. Opened a can of worms here....
halndallas (6)
25/12/2023 19:36more 'i'm coming to your town' then never hear from em. I know they 'shop around' . I get that.
mochablk (22)
25/12/2023 17:02Not really getting any matches since I moved.
halndallas (6)
25/12/2023 19:38(em resposta à...)
georgia? Its teeming with members from this site I thought.
mochablk (22)
26/12/2023 17:50(em resposta à...)
Yeah, but I moved to a smaller city in Savannah, so...yeah.
wrestl2win (82)
25/12/2023 05:25A lot fewer.
Mainewrsl (40)
26/12/2023 19:20(em resposta à...)
I would like to change that for you, wrestl2win.
hardonthemat (64)
26/12/2023 19:51(em resposta à...)
UP to wrestle you - Maine. See what you bring to the mat. Long match!
wrestl2win (82)
26/12/2023 19:37(em resposta à...)
I'd take you on Mainewrsl.
JiminQueens2 (39)
24/12/2023 06:00I'm getting more matches in my 50s than I did in my 20s or 30s. Mostly with guys our age, but a few younger guys too.