I'm an older straight guy just interested in wrestling for fun, some competition and a good workout. Most of the guys who I have been able to find to wrestle have been gay. They have virtually all been good guys. There just has to be mutual understanding and respect.
Some guys worry about a hard-on offending me but it used to happen to me when I was younger (LOL). I don't really pay attention to that-too busy wrestling.
I agree with Sturdy,that,wrestling is a sport as, I've tried getting hard,even without thinking about it,and it stays limp or flaccid maybe a better word.When I wrestle, I cannot concentrate on having a hard on and wrestling,its one or the other, as when you are in a tight hold like a body scissors, your blood is needed elsewhere in your body trying to get out of said hold,but,I know everyone is different and handles it better than others.
5'11", 155# very lean, strong, fast, tough, a damn good wrestler, pretty muscular for my size.
I'm always lookin for a good competitive match. Did any of you guys in here place at the nationals or state competitions? If you did, I'm lookin for you.
I've been wrestling since I was a kid. If you haven't been wrestling a long time, we're just not gonna have a very competitive match unless you're quite a bit bigger and stronger than me. If you have good wrestling technique, you already know that you do.
Otherwise, if you keep yourself in good shape and want to learn some more wrestling, I'm happy to teach ya.
If you have a friend you practice with, it's easy for me to teach you both, easier actually, having an extra body to demonstrate with.
The thing that makes THIS website better than any other for serious wrestlers is the ability to distinguish/search on different criteria. You can easily filter out all the fetish, pro, cyber and other fantasists.
Also, the Past Opponents feature shows who has actually met up with other guys and who is just putting up posy pictures.
Sometimes you get the best of both worlds. You wrestle, box, whatever, and then IF the chemisty is right & you are up for it, move on to "fun". With some guys it never goes further than the "sport" bit and would not feel right. No problem with that, especially if that has been made clear beforehand. Whatever my notions about someone, when I'm out to submit or to score a hold down then that is the only immediate objective & priority. As you both indicate wrestling does not, or does not necessarily have any sexual overtones at all, other than male bonding type stuff - wherever that fits.
I'm gay but my only reason for being here is to find guys to wrestle with. And by wrestle I mean WRESTLE, which has nothing to do with sex, fetish, heeling, jobbing or any of that stuff. I have also wrestled straight guys (in wrestling classes and in judo) and for me the fun of fighting is in NO WAY a turn on.
It can be frustrating sometimes having to explain to yet another 'gay wrestler' that to me wrestling is actually a sport...
I'm a Straight Fighter that just likes to Fight & talk about Fights with other Fighters & Serious Fight Fans! No offense intended but so far it seems the vast majority of guys on here are into other stuff as well! Which has nothing to do with serious combat where you're trying to overpower your opponent with strikes & grappling to knock him out!
Please tell me I'm not the only Straight Fighter & Serious Fight Fan that just wants to fight to test my Fighting Skill against an Opponent in a tough fight to knockout and nothing else! So if your Straight & just want to Fight to try to knockout an opponent in an MMA style Fight hit me up! Later...
Bomber (20)
15/9/2010 01:31I'm an older straight guy just interested in wrestling for fun, some competition and a good workout. Most of the guys who I have been able to find to wrestle have been gay. They have virtually all been good guys. There just has to be mutual understanding and respect.
Some guys worry about a hard-on offending me but it used to happen to me when I was younger (LOL). I don't really pay attention to that-too busy wrestling.
RedCloudStreet (26)
14/9/2010 22:41I agree with Sturdy,that,wrestling is a sport as, I've tried getting hard,even without thinking about it,and it stays limp or flaccid maybe a better word.When I wrestle, I cannot concentrate on having a hard on and wrestling,its one or the other, as when you are in a tight hold like a body scissors, your blood is needed elsewhere in your body trying to get out of said hold,but,I know everyone is different and handles it better than others.
MancsMonkey (0)
14/9/2010 21:26Agree with Gcoe but what definition of "straight" are we using here?
UKrenegade (86)
13/9/2010 21:16I think it is a major mistake to link sexuality with fight 'seriousness'. Plenty of gay guys like it hard (no pun intended).
wrestlernatl (1)
10/9/2010 02:515'11", 155# very lean, strong, fast, tough, a damn good wrestler, pretty muscular for my size.
I'm always lookin for a good competitive match. Did any of you guys in here place at the nationals or state competitions? If you did, I'm lookin for you.
I've been wrestling since I was a kid. If you haven't been wrestling a long time, we're just not gonna have a very competitive match unless you're quite a bit bigger and stronger than me. If you have good wrestling technique, you already know that you do.
Otherwise, if you keep yourself in good shape and want to learn some more wrestling, I'm happy to teach ya.
If you have a friend you practice with, it's easy for me to teach you both, easier actually, having an extra body to demonstrate with.
Sturdy (31)
08/9/2010 18:14The thing that makes THIS website better than any other for serious wrestlers is the ability to distinguish/search on different criteria. You can easily filter out all the fetish, pro, cyber and other fantasists.
Also, the Past Opponents feature shows who has actually met up with other guys and who is just putting up posy pictures.
grapl (0)
08/9/2010 13:49Sometimes you get the best of both worlds. You wrestle, box, whatever, and then IF the chemisty is right & you are up for it, move on to "fun". With some guys it never goes further than the "sport" bit and would not feel right. No problem with that, especially if that has been made clear beforehand. Whatever my notions about someone, when I'm out to submit or to score a hold down then that is the only immediate objective & priority. As you both indicate wrestling does not, or does not necessarily have any sexual overtones at all, other than male bonding type stuff - wherever that fits.
Sturdy (31)
07/9/2010 20:49I'm gay but my only reason for being here is to find guys to wrestle with. And by wrestle I mean WRESTLE, which has nothing to do with sex, fetish, heeling, jobbing or any of that stuff. I have also wrestled straight guys (in wrestling classes and in judo) and for me the fun of fighting is in NO WAY a turn on.
It can be frustrating sometimes having to explain to yet another 'gay wrestler' that to me wrestling is actually a sport...
knockoutsrgr8 (0)
06/9/2010 19:35I'm a Straight Fighter that just likes to Fight & talk about Fights with other Fighters & Serious Fight Fans! No offense intended but so far it seems the vast majority of guys on here are into other stuff as well! Which has nothing to do with serious combat where you're trying to overpower your opponent with strikes & grappling to knock him out!
Please tell me I'm not the only Straight Fighter & Serious Fight Fan that just wants to fight to test my Fighting Skill against an Opponent in a tough fight to knockout and nothing else! So if your Straight & just want to Fight to try to knockout an opponent in an MMA style Fight hit me up! Later...