5'8" 150# fit, solid, smooth, athletic, adept, strong looking for competitive-but-safe freestyle/submission and muscle to muscle grappling with fit guys my size who are good wrestlers (the more parity the better so if not all three I wont respond).  Good all-around athlete growing up, high school star and earned a D1 athletic scholarship.  No pro, cyber, verbal, chokes/breath control, strikes, stalkers, dorks trying to validate themselves to compensate for being non-athletic growing up. Just enjoy it for what it is. You are what you were in high school. Bezos, Zuckerberg and Musk will forever be insatiably needy weirdo destabilizing dorks. Facebook came out of a guy's insecurity and need for vengeance against a gender The fates really came together there. Insecurity is the catalyst for many big successes. Most. Everybody but Reed Hastings and Warren Buffet. Does anyone actually feel like they're watching a comfortable-in-his-skin mature man with current-day Tom Cruise? That guy's willing to skydive from Mars for validation. Him and Madonna. That guy's vibe is more similar to me than anyone I've ever met – definitely the vibe of someone on the wrestling team or running for student body president – and I've met and spoken to a lot of people but you don't see me hangin' off planes. I throw myself at life more than most but I got limits. I've had several lifetimes' worth of attention I never asked for. The people that want it don't get it and guys like me get smothered in it. Focus, execute, do things well, treat people well. Worked for me. Don't ask me to wrestle in a ring and I don't go to wrestling events.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G8ITA_jFkyY&t=4s
This video is like the wrestling my buddy and I did in his parents' big downstairs den when we'd go home for college summers. He was my height, weight and proportioning and, like me, he wrestled on the team at some point and was a good all-around athlete. We transitioned from tennis, basketball, running or lifting to wrestling without having to say anything. We'd just de-shirt and go at it. Two equal guys competing every athletic way we could. We double-dated and even those things had a masculine competition vibe. My take on wrestling has not changed from when I was in college. Move the furniture or find a good space anywhere and go at it. I experimented with accommodating other guys' turn-ons to explore and make the match enjoyable for them and went with it for a while but I wasn't good at it and it turned into stuff like getting smothered or my boner yanked without my OK and finding out saying "stop!" is the ultimate aphrodisiac for fetishists, especially when you're exhausted and can't move. In this context, I'm just about no-agenda grappling for fun. Mutual struggle between equals. Does this link work? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MixTv-Ay9co&lc=Ugx3naj9UuxZx1oCeXx4AaABAg